9 November 2020

3 mins read

Treat Yourself and Your Friends This Single’s Day!

Singlehood is easily celebrated in youth but greeted with concern at family gatherings as one approaches their 30’s. The immense social pressure to find a partner of a lifetime by a certain time is unnecessary and unjustified, and those who incessantly seek answers from you cannot accept that you can be 30, single and… Very happy!

Assumptions about singlehood

Bella DePaulo, a social scientist and author of “Singled Out,” has dedicated most of her career to studying singles since the late 1990s. She coined the phrase “singlism” to describe the ways in which people discriminate against singles. Singles are assumed to be miserable, lonely, selfish, and fundamentally unlovable. 


If they’re advancing well in their careers, it’s because “they don’t have a family to get to and all of their time and energy can be spent on work”. Singles may even experience discriminatory practises at work and are pressured to work the longer hours in place of their married coworkers since “they have nowhere to get to”.

How to manage societal pressure

People are single for many reasons. Some are by choice, and others may be struggling to find compatible partners. Regardless, you must first acknowledge where the pressure is coming from. 

If the pressure is external where you’re completely fine being your own person and yet people can’t seem to respect your decision, you may find empowerment in choosing to be around those like you. Intentionally surrounding yourself with like-minded people is a great way to find support.

They’re also a good way to be comfortable in your own skin without feeling others are judging you. These environments also promote privacy, social and recreational activities and are free of unwarranted “Why are you single?” questions.

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“If you don't love yourself, how are you going to love somebody else?”

For those who aren’t single by choice, you need to first be proud of yourself for not settling. The security you find in singlehood is powerful and will better prepare you for an emotionally healthy relationship.


Instagram is a really inaccurate representation of what relationships truly entail. Instead of hoping on those perceived ideals, use the time to find your individuality, invest in your interests and to find new ones. You’ll find that being secure in singlehood is the best thing you can do for yourself and your future partner!

We don't do this very often but...

At Zenyum, we’re all about making you smile more. In honour of Single’s Day, we’re letting our best selling sonic toothbrushes go for up to 60% off (Base price: MYR279.00). We want every individual (including those in love) to feel confident in their smiles. 

If you’re still unsure if a sonic toothbrush is right for you, here’s the low-down on why you should make the switch. For those of you who can’t wait to ditch your manual brush and make the switch, save the dates below!

The Early Bird Catches the Worm! (6 Nov to 8 Nov)

Subscribe for our early bird deal before the 8th of November to secure your sonic toothbrush at 40% off (MYR167.00 each) and 3 additional brush heads on us. We have limited stock, so be quick!

Promo Code: EARLYBIRD11

And if you’ve missed the early bird discounts…

11.11 Sonic Sale (9 Nov to 12 Nov)

Don’t worry we’ve got worms for the later birds. The sonic toothbrush will be going at 60% off (MYR119.00 each) during this period, the lowest yet!

Promo Code: GOSONIC11

If you STILL haven’t gotten a Sonic yet, don’t worry! We have more discounts for you!

Family Deal Afterparty (13 Nov to 19 Nov)

If you’re the sort to arrive after the party’s over… we’ve still got worms! Huddle a group of 4 or more for the Family Deal Afterparty to shop our sonic toothbrushes for 50% off (MYR 139.50 each).


Make sure you get your Zenyum Sonic this 11.11 to give you just one more reason to be confident with a brighter smile.

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Treat Yourself and Your Friends This Single’s Day!